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« on: June 05, 2004, 05:23:58 PM »

A great man and a great president died today Sad  I know first hand how much he did for this country and in how he and his administration engineered the downfall of the Soviet Union...so that My children will never know the fear of Global Thermo Nuclear War.  He had so many great accomplishments to his name, and had only a few scandals.... I truely believe history will show him to have been one of Americas finest Presidents....and a benefactor to the world. Sad

I would put our flag at half mast if I could.

Fair Well and God Speed Mr. President.  I was honored to serve under you.
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« Reply #1 on: June 05, 2004, 05:41:34 PM »

Yes I just heard it on the news  Sad  I always liked Reagan, I hope Nancy can deal with it OK, she's been taking care of him for so many years.  May he rest in peace.
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« Reply #2 on: June 05, 2004, 05:42:52 PM »

Ronald Reagan’s Rainbow
To his eternal ranch.

By Paul Kengor

Ronald Reagan was a man who had it all. It is difficult to identify an American who lived a fuller, or greater, life — what he understatedly called "An American Life." In nearly everything he did, Reagan succeeded wildly. When he left his parents' home in 1932, he landed a coveted job in radio. Then came the movies and television, in the heyday of each medium. In the 1930s, when most of America suffered, Reagan soared. By the 1940s, he was one of the top box office draws in Hollywood and received more fan mail than any actor at Warner Brothers except Errol Flynn. His hosting of the number-one rated television show GE Theatre from 1954 to 1962 made him one of the most recognized names in America.

 
 
 
Of course, after that, he entered politics and twice won the governorship of the nation's largest state and the presidency of the world's most powerful nation. And I'm certain that his epitaph will be that he was the president who won the Cold War.

Where did this record of achievement begin? It started with humble origins: at the Rock River at Lowell Park in Dixon, Illinois, where a teenage Reagan lifeguarded seven days a week, 10 to 12 hours per day, for seven summers. He was the rock at the Rock River, always watching. He saved the lives of 77 people there: "One of the proudest statistics of my life," he said later. Saving a drowning victim is not easy under any circumstance, but it was especially difficult in the treacherous Rock River, where the swirling water is so deep and murky that swimming there today has long been banned.

Still, the job was a labor of love for Reagan. "My beloved lifeguarding," he later called it. Even when Alzheimer's meant he couldn't recognize his closest friends when they visited him in his Los Angeles office in the 1990s, Reagan could point to the painting on his wall, a colorful illustration of the spot where he patrolled the Rock River, and longingly reminisce.

On November 5, 1994, Ronald Reagan handwrote a letter informing the world that Alzheimer's disease was riding him into "the sunset of my life." That choice of words was astonishing: Alzheimer's is a horrific disease that robs memories. In just a few years, Reagan wouldn't even remember the White House.

How could he refer to that impending doom as the sunset of his life? Was he ignorant of the disease? Not at all. As president, Reagan made eight separate statements on Alzheimer's — an average of one for each year in the White House. It is chilling to read those words today. Alzheimer's, said Reagan, is an "indiscriminate killer of mind and life" — a "devastating" sickness that "deprives its victims of the opportunity to enjoy life." It "ranks among the most severe of afflictions, because it strips people of their memory and judgment and robs them of the essence of their personalities. As the brain progressively deteriorates, tasks familiar for a lifetime, such as tying a shoelace or making a bed, become bewildering. Spouses and children become strangers." "Slowly," reported Reagan, "victims of the disease enter profound dementia."

Reagan had unwittingly forecast his own demise.

So, how could Reagan, obviously knowledgeable of Alzheimer's, describe the onset of his disease as a coming sunset? I've watched sunsets on the California coast, indeed from the very "Ranch in the Sky" that Reagan did. The answer was Reagan's secret weapon: his optimism. He called it an eternal optimism, a "God-given optimism."

He first discovered that gift through his mother, Nelle Reagan, who (along with Nancy) was the most important person in his life. Nelle instilled in her son the Christian faith so fundamental to his very being. She taught him that the twists and turns in the road are there for a reason. The bad things are part of "God's plan" for the good. There is a rainbow waiting around the bend. God, Reagan reasoned, was in control and worked everything for the best.

Reagan preached this theology in his memoirs and in countless private letters that today sit in the Reagan Library. It became a kind of grief ministry. He would write to a widow: It's a tragedy that your husband died and I write to send my deepest condolences; if it's any comfort, God has a plan....

In 1962, the woman who shared such thinking with Reagan died of what the family called "senility;" what we today would likely diagnose as Alzheimer's. Yet, Reagan remained optimistic. His mother's death, he told friends, was a step through an eternal window-to that rainbow waiting around the bend.

"How we die is God's business," Reagan told his daughter Patti. Our duty is to accept it. As a 17-year-old, he wrote a poem called "Life." Here is a revealing excerpt:

[W]hy does sorrow drench us

When our fellow passes on?

He's just exchanged life's dreary dirge

For an eternal life of song.
All of this explains how the eternal optimist, in that November 1994 letter, could be positive even as Alzheimer's was crowding in, about to cast his mind into oblivion.
It is telling that in that brief letter to the American people, Ronald Reagan mentioned God and faith four times. "When the Lord calls me home," he wrote, "I will leave with the greatest love for this country of ours and eternal optimism for its future."

Since that goodbye, it has been an unpleasant ten years for a man — and his family — whose life was so richly blessed; he enjoyed precious few sunsets. Now, at last, Ronald Reagan can rest in peace. Enjoy that rainbow, Mr. President.

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« Reply #3 on: June 05, 2004, 05:49:29 PM »

Key dates in life of Ronald Reagan.

Feb. 6, 1911: Born in Tampico, Ill., younger of two sons of Nellie and John Reagan.

1932: Graduates from Eureka College, Eureka, Ill.

1932-1937: Works as radio announcer at WOC, Davenport, Iowa, and then WHO, Des Moines.

1937: Makes film debut with "Love Is on the Air."

Jan. 26, 1940: Marries Jane Wyman, actress. Children: Maureen, born 1941, Michael, born 1945, and Christine, born four months premature in 1947 and died the next day. Marriage ends in divorce in 1949.

1940: Plays "the Gipper" in "Knute Rockne: All-American," one of his best-known roles.

1942-45: Serves war effort by making air force training films.

1947: Becomes president of the Screen Actors Guild.

March 4, 1952. Marries Nancy Davis, actress. Children: Patti, born 1952, and Ronald, born 1958.

1952, 1956, 1960: Though a Democrat, campaigns for Republicans Dwight D. Eisenhower, Richard Nixon. Formally switches to Republican Party in 1962.

1954-62: Works as host and performer on General Electric Theater, tours as speaker for GE.

Oct. 27, 1964: Gives influential speech in favor of GOP presidential candidate Barry Goldwater.

Nov. 8, 1966: Elected California governor over incumbent Democrat Edmund G. "Pat" Brown.

1968: Makes last-minute bid for Republican presidential nomination.

Nov. 3, 1970: Elected to second term as governor.

1976: Challenges President Ford unsuccessfully in the Republican primaries.

Nov. 4, 1980: Elected president over incumbent Jimmy Carter, garnering 51.6 percent of the popular vote to 41.7 percent for Carter and 6.7 percent for independent John Anderson.

Jan. 20, 1981: Sworn in as 40th president of the United States. Iranian hostages released.

March 30, 1981: Wounded by one of six shots fired as he left a Washington hotel after giving a speech.

June 5, 1981: The AIDS crisis begins when the U.S. Centers for Disease Control reports five gay men in Los Angeles are suffering from a rare pneumonia.

July 7, 1981: Announces he is nominating Arizona judge Sandra Day O'Connor to become the first female justice on the U.S. Supreme Court.

August 1981: Fires more than 11,000 air traffic controllers after they go out on strike against the Federal Aviation Administration.

Oct. 23, 1983: 241 U.S. Marines and sailors are killed in a suicide truck-bombing in Lebanon.

Oct. 25, 1983: U.S. troops invade island of Grenada after a leftist coup there.

Nov. 6, 1984: Re-elected, besting former Vice President Walter Mondale with nearly 60 percent of the popular vote. He took 49 out of 50 states for an Electoral College vote of 525-13, the most lopsided since Franklin Roosevelt defeated Alf Landon in 1936.

May 5, 1985: Visits German military cemetery at Bitburg as a gesture of reconciliation, inciting worldwide protests because 49 of Adolf Hitler's dreaded Waffen SS troops are buried there.

July 13, 1985: Undergoes successful surgery for colon cancer.

Nov. 19-21, 1985: Summit in Geneva with Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev. Reagan calls it a "fresh start" in U.S.-Soviet relations.

April 15, 1986: United States launches an air raid against Libya in response to the bombing of a discotheque in Berlin 10 days earlier. Libya says 37 people, mostly civilians, were killed.

Oct. 11-12, 1986: Summit in Reykjavik, Iceland, on arms reduction, U.S. strategic defense initiative or "Star Wars."

November 1986: The Iran-Contra affair becomes public. White House admits selling arms to Iran but denies it sold arms for hostages. Later in the month, Reagan announces aide Oliver North has been fired and national security adviser John Poindexter has resigned. It is disclosed that up to $30 million in arms-sale profits were diverted to Nicaraguan rebels, known as the Contras.

March 4, 1987: Reagan acknowledges in a televised speech that his Iranian initiative deteriorated into an arms-for-hostages deal, saying, "It was a mistake."

Oct. 23, 1987: Senate rejects Reagan's nomination of Robert H. Bork for the Supreme Court.

Dec. 8-10, 1987: Summit in Washington. Reagan, Gorbachev sign treaty to eliminate intermediate-range nuclear forces, but disagreement over Star Wars blocks progress on a strategic arms reduction treaty.

May 29-June 2, 1988: Summit in Moscow. Reagan, Gorbachev exchange ratified texts of the INF treaty, discuss strategic and conventional arms and stroll in Red Square.

Nov. 8, 1988: Reagan's vice president, George H.W. Bush, defeats Massachusetts Gov. Michael Dukakis for the presidency.

Dec. 7, 1988: Summit in New York City. Gorbachev's plan to reduce Soviet armed forces is discussed. President-elect Bush takes part.

January 1989: Returns to California after second term ends.

November 1990: Publishes his memoir, "An American Life."

Nov. 4, 1991: Reagan presidential library in Simi Valley, Calif., dedicated; with President Bush and former Presidents Reagan, Carter, Ford and Nixon in attendance.

Nov. 5, 1994: Discloses he had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease.

Jan. 12, 2001: Breaks his hip in a fall at his home.

March 4, 2001: Christening of the aircraft carrier Ronald Reagan.

Aug. 8, 2001: Daughter Maureen dies of cancer.

Oct. 11, 2001: Becomes the longest-lived president ever, having lived 33,120 days. The nation's second chief executive, John Adams, lived 33,119 days, from 1735 to 1826.

July 12, 2003: U.S. Navy commissions its newest aircraft carrier, the USS Ronald Reagan, the first carrier to be named for a living president.

June 5, 2004: Reagan dies at 93.

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« Reply #4 on: June 05, 2004, 08:50:36 PM »

The Cold Warrior..
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« Reply #5 on: June 05, 2004, 10:50:15 PM »

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« Reply #6 on: June 06, 2004, 12:40:53 AM »

Reagan had policies I didn't like (stockpiling weapons, cutting corporate taxes) and policies that are irrefutably landmarks in history (the bidding game with the USSR that broke its back -- see previous "stockpilings weapons" remark).

Above all, he was an honest man, a loving husband, and a forthright American.  Where his views clashed with mine, they did so quite openly, as they should.  Clinton called him "an American Original," and I wholeheartedly agree.

Mr. President, Godspeed.  Whatever respite you find, it is well-earned.  And Mrs. President, thank you for continuing to be a paradigm of virtue in our society.

This is a sad day for America  Cry but it is the marking of the passing of a great life, and for that we cannot be sad.  Time chases us all down, but here is one man who has left his timelessness behind.  I am proud to have lived under this man's guidance and rule for some formative years of my life. *salute*
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The Nation's 40th President Dies at 93
By JEFF WILSON and TERENCE HUNT, AP
   
LOS ANGELES (June 6) - Ronald Reagan, the cheerful crusader who devoted his presidency to winning the Cold War, trying to scale back government and making people believe it was ''morning again in America,'' died Saturday after a long twilight struggle with Alzheimer's disease.

''My family and I would like the world to know that President Ronald Reagan has passed away after 10 years of Alzheimer's disease at 93 years of age. We appreciate everyone's prayers,'' Nancy Reagan said in a statement.

Nancy Reagan, along with children Ron and Patti Davis, were at the couple's Los Angeles home when Reagan died at 1 p.m. PDT of pneumonia, as a complication of Alzheimer's disease, said Joanne Drake, who represents the family. Son Michael arrived a short time later, she said.

In Paris, President Bush called Reagan's death ''a sad day for America.''

The U.S. flag over the White House - along with flags elsewhere - was lowered to half-staff. At ballparks and at the Belmont Stakes, there were moments of silence.

Five years after leaving office, the nation's 40th president told the world in November 1994 that he had been diagnosed with the early stages of Alzheimer's, an incurable illness that destroys brain cells. He said he had begun ''the journey that will lead me into the sunset of my life.''

A black hearse carried a flag-draped coffin from the Reagan home Saturday afternoon to a Santa Monica mortuary.

Reagan's body was expected to be taken to his presidential library and museum in Simi Valley, Calif., and then flown to Washington to lie in state in the Capitol Rotunda. His funeral was expected to be at the National Cathedral, an event likely to draw world leaders. The body was to be returned to California for a sunset burial at the library.

Reagan began his life in a four-room apartment over the general store in Tampico, Ill. During his 93 years, he was a radio sports announcer, an actor, a two-term governor of California and a crusader for conservative politics.

Over two presidential terms, from 1981 to 1989, Reagan reshaped the Republican Party in his conservative image, fixed his eye on the demise of the Soviet Union and Eastern European communism and tripled the national debt to $3 trillion in his singleminded competition with the other superpower.

''Ronald Reagan had a higher claim than any other leader to have won the Cold War for liberty and he did it without a shot being fired,'' former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher said Saturday.

At the time of Reagan's retirement, his very name suggested a populist brand of conservative politics that still inspires the Republican Party.
He declared at the outset, ''Government is not the solution, it's the problem,'' although reducing that government proved harder to do in reality than in his rhetoric.
Even so, he challenged the status quo on welfare and other programs that had put government on a growth spurt ever since Franklin D. Roosevelt's New Deal strengthened the federal presence in the lives of average Americans.

In foreign affairs, he built the arsenals of war while seeking and achieving arms control agreements with the Soviet Union.

In his second term, Reagan was dogged by revelations that he authorized secret arms sales to Iran while seeking Iranian aid to gain release of American hostages held in Lebanon. Some of the money was used to aid rebels fighting the leftist government of Nicaragua.

Despite the ensuing investigations, he left office in 1989 with the highest popularity rating of any retiring president in the history of modern-day public opinion polls.

That reflected, in part, his uncommon ability as a communicator and his way of connecting with ordinary Americans, even as his policies infuriated the left and as his simple verities made him the butt of jokes. ''Morning again in America'' became his re-election campaign mantra in 1984, but typified his appeal to patriotrism through both terms.

''He brought down the Evil Empire and made the world safer for my children and theirs. For that, I shall be forever grateful for his leadership,'' said Reagan's former national security aide, Oliver L. North, who was fired and later convicted for his involvement in the Iran-Contra scandal. Those convictions were overturned based on his testimony before Congress.

Reagan's presidency overlaid the spendthrift 1980s, tagged by some as the ''Greed Decade.'' It was a time of conspicuous consumption, hostile takeovers, new billionaires. American power was ascendant after the angst of the 1970s over Vietnam and the release of the hostages in Iran at the start of his presidency.

In large ways and small - from the president's tough talk against the Evil Empire and ''welfare queens'' to his wife's designer dresses and new china for the White House - the Reagans seemed to embody the times.

And for all the glowing talk of Reagan's folksy appeal and infectious optimism, it was a time of growing division between rich and poor. Now, as then, critics point to Reaganomics in lamenting big defense spending at the expense of domestic needs and a growing national debt.

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 Quotes From Reagan's Presidency 

· Communism: "I believe that communism is another sad, bizarre chapter in human history whose last pages even now are being written."

· Government: "Government is not the solution, it's the problem."

· On Challenger Crew: "We will never forget them ... as they prepared for the journey and waved goodbye and slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God."

· Joking While Testing Microphone: "My fellow Americans, I'm pleased to tell you today that I've signed legislation that will outlaw Russia forever. We begin bombing in five minutes."

· After He Was Shot: "Honey, I forgot to duck."
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Reagan, a Democrat in his acting days, got a taste of politics when he served as president of the Screen Actors Guild from 1947 to 1952, and again from 1959 to 1960.

He appeared in more than 50 films over two decades in Hollywood, with roles ranging from a college professor who raises a chimpanzee in ''Bedtime for Bonzo'' to doomed football star George Gipp in ''Knute Rockne: All-American'' in which he wanted his teammates to ''win just one for the Gipper.''

Reagan lived longer than any U.S. president, spending his last decade in the shrouded seclusion wrought by his disease, tended by his wife, Nancy, whom he called Mommy, and the select few closest to him. Now, Gerald Ford, Jimmy Carter, George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton are the surviving ex-presidents.

''We had been political opponents and became close friends. Barbara and I mourn the loss of a great president and for us a great friend,'' the elder Bush said Saturday.

Ford recalled Reagan as ''an excellent leader of our nation during challenging times at home and abroad.''

Clinton called him ''a true American original.''

Democratic presidential hopeful John Kerry said that Reagan's ''love of country was infectious. Even when he was breaking Democrats' hearts, he did so with a smile and in the spirit of honest and open debate.''
   
Although she was fiercely protective of Reagan's privacy, Nancy Reagan let people know the former president's mental condition had deteriorated terribly. Last month, she said: ''Ronnie's long journey has finally taken him to a distant place where I can no longer reach him.''

''I pray that as America reflects on the passing of my dad, they will remember a man of integrity, conviction and good humor that changed America and the world for the better,'' Michael Reagan said.

At 69, Reagan was the oldest man ever elected president when he was chosen in 1980, by an unexpectedly large margin over the incumbent Carter.

Near-tragedy struck on his 70th day as president. On March 30, 1981, Reagan was leaving a Washington hotel after addressing labor leaders when a young drifter, John Hinckley, fired six shots at him. A bullet lodged an inch from Reagan's heart, but he recovered.

Four years later he was re-elected by an even greater margin, carrying 49 of the 50 states in defeating Democrat Walter F. Mondale, Carter's vice president.

Reagan's oldest daughter, Maureen, from his first marriage, died in August 2001 at age 60 from cancer. Three other children survive: Michael, from his first marriage, and Patti Davis and Ron from his second.


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« Reply #7 on: June 07, 2004, 09:03:29 AM »

Unfortunately, I missed the original announcement.  I dont watch much TV on the weekend, and I avoid our local paper like the plague(I can only handle so much liberalism at a time, and that one puts me WAY over my RDA).  I first heard the announcement this morning on the radio, and I was deeply saddened.

Reagan was a good man and a great President.  My hat's off to him, and my thoughts will be with his family.
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« Reply #8 on: June 07, 2004, 10:30:37 AM »

From all accounts he was also a decent father and good husband for over 50 years to Nancy.  His Divorce from Jane Wyman was...unfortunate for both parties...but he found his true love in Nancy.
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« Reply #9 on: June 08, 2004, 02:18:33 AM »

Nancy Reagan is awesome in my opinion.   

MagiK, if you want to see how he may have been with his family, you should check out his personal letters.  Some were published in an issue of Time 5 or 6 months ago.

If only our leaders were all so good at bridging gaps between the sides.

And, Reagan was not known as an environmentalist, but I must say that most of the most stringent environmental laws were penned during his presidency (notably CERCLA, but also including RCRA as well as CWA and CAA re-workings), though they may have become watered-down since then.
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« Reply #10 on: June 08, 2004, 03:22:23 PM »

Im hoping to take Thrusday Morning off to go pay my respects while he lays in state.
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« Reply #11 on: June 08, 2004, 04:08:22 PM »

Im hoping to take Thrusday Morning off to go pay my respects while he lays in state.
If you make it, please tip your hat once for me.  There's no possible way I could make, but I'll definitely be there in spirit.
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« Reply #12 on: June 08, 2004, 04:15:04 PM »

I think Im suffering from a severe case of De Ja Vu.  Didin't I already post that once somewhere?   Ugh...my head hurts.
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« Reply #13 on: June 09, 2004, 08:18:09 AM »

I had read this a few years back.  I think it shows you that his children admired him just as much as the country, and that he was a kind father (not that I doubted that):
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One Month, One Lifetime
Her dad can no longer speak. But Patti Davis knows the two words Ronald Reagan would say about September 11
'He taught me something important about grief,' writes Davis, seen here with her father in 1966 at age 13. 'He taught me to look up'

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Updated: 10:55 a.m. ET Oct.16, 2001Oct. 16 -
Oct. 11, 2001 was the one month anniversary of the day that changed everything. Years from now, we will speak of before September 11 and after; some dates remain with us forever. Oct. 11 was also the day that my father, Ronald Reagan, was officially acknowledged to have lived longer than any other former president. Until that day, John Quincy Adams held that distinction.

ALZHEIMER’S IS A DISEASE of loss, of missing the person who has been claimed by its piracy. I think I have missed my father the most since Sept. 11, or maybe I’ve just missed him differently. If not for this disease, he would be an elder statesman, taking up dignified space in the hushed and hallowed realm of our collective thoughts. We look to statesmen for wisdom, comfort, calm in the face of fear. Yet his voice is absent.

When I saw all the former presidents at the memorial service on Sept. 14, I etched in my mind an image of my father, standing amongst them, head bowed in prayer; I wasn’t willing to concede that he wasn’t there. Just after the 11th, I put my head against his chest so I could hear and feel his heartbeat and I whispered, “Something terrible has happened in the world. I wish I knew what you would say.”

Then I realized that a very long time ago, he taught me something important about grief. He taught me to look up. We had driven out to the Agoura ranch my family owned during my childhood. The ranch-hand met us at the car with tears streaming down his face. He told us that my father’s beloved horse, Nancy D, had died suddenly in the hours before dawn. She had been close to delivering a foal and, with no previous symptoms, had succumbed to a fatal disease. I burst into tears, but when I looked at my father, he had a sweet, faraway look on his face and his eyes were aimed up toward the sky.

“Why aren’t you crying?” I asked—a reasonable question for a nine-year-old.

“Because I’m thinking of all the wonderful memories I have with her, all the great years we had together.”

I’m sure he cried, and grieved deeply, but what I remember—what I have held within me all these years—is the looking up, his remembering to check in with God.

When I lived in New York, I used to love looking up—at roof gardens, at classic architecture, at the moon hanging between buildings. In the nights since the 11th, I have had dreams of walking those same Manhattan streets and looking up at a hole in the skyline. In the morning I have woken up and found I had been crying in my sleep. Sometimes it hurts so much to look up—sometimes the emptiness stretches so wide and aches so horribly.

But there is this about the sky: it always changes, and when we look up, it helps us heal. We remember, we dream, we tell God how much we hurt and how fragile our hopes seem.

My father has lived longer than any other president, and his voice can’t be heard now. But I tell you that it can. He would have said to look up. He told that to his young daughter a long time ago—and to many others over the years.

Last week, I turned a corner in Los Angeles and saw several people staring up into the sky. I followed their gaze to a cluster of balloons sailing up into the endless expanse. They were red, white and blue. We all stood and watched them until they were just tiny specks, and then we looked at each other and smiled. We were strangers, but we smiled like we weren’t. That’s the other thing about looking up—when you look down again, you see things differently.


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« Reply #14 on: June 09, 2004, 08:21:01 AM »

Magik, tip your hat for me too.

Did the family request a particular picture be used or is it just coincidence that both Time and Newsweek used the exact same shot of Reagan on their covers?  When I opened my mailbox, I thought I had gotten 2 copies of the same magazine at first  Ack
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« Reply #15 on: June 09, 2004, 08:57:41 AM »

The Cuban State Radio has blasted President Reagan saying that he never should have been born.  Pointing out his policies in central america....

His policies in Central America started out when there were 11 dictatorships in the region...now there is just 1....and that is largely due to his works.
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« Reply #16 on: June 09, 2004, 09:04:31 AM »

For BBC coverage on the Reagan legacy, you might like to look here. I don't just mean the headline article, which may put some noses out of joint, but the totality of the coverage.
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« Reply #17 on: June 09, 2004, 10:39:37 AM »

Thanks Mouse  Smiley 

For once I really don't need to read the papers about his presidency...I had a job that put me in a position know more than the papers ever will about what "Really" was going on during that decade.   Heck I even got to read the news before the News Editors did.     In decades to come, things will be declassified that explain a lot and prove much more...and I am quite happy to say that I served my Country under his leadership.  I suppose that statment will piss some people off but it is the truth and I love to be able to say "I was there" even if a lot of it is still classified. 

I will look over the articles though just to see whats being said.
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« Reply #18 on: June 09, 2004, 11:40:48 AM »

These bits are touching too.  The whole piece is here: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5164869/

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Patti Davis:
“At the last moment when his breathing told us this was it, he opened his eyes and looked straight at my mother.  Eyes that hadn‘t opened for days, did. And they weren‘t chalky or vague.  They were clear, and blue, and full of love.  If a death can be lovely, his was.” 
Patti Davis wrote more about that last flash of recognition from her father to his wife, quoting her mother as calling it, “The greatest gift he could have given her.” 

Writes Davis: “In his last moment, he taught me that there is nothing stronger than love between two people, two souls...it was the last thing he could do in this world to show my mother how entwined their souls are...and it was everything.”
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« Reply #19 on: June 09, 2004, 12:12:59 PM »

The Cuban State Radio has blasted President Reagan saying that he never should have been born.  Pointing out his policies in central america....

His policies in Central America started out when there were 11 dictatorships in the region...now there is just 1....and that is largely due to his works.
Which is why that 1 is obviously so anti-Reagan.  Wink  So, he managed to piss Castro off -- Imagine that, he's dead an up for public mourning and he's still one helluva great Republican.   Grin
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